Breaking up

Q: Hi. I’m 24 and I am in a relationship with a wonderful man. We have been together for almost four years now and we have even discussed marriage. However, after prayer and fasting I don’t feel like he is the right man for me. I know I want to break up with him but I am at a loss, I don’t know how to go about it. How does a...

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Leading my boyfriend to Jesus

Hey Paula, I have a question. I have been dating a wonderful man for about four months now. He is not born again. He is unsure of if God exists. I have tried to share my faith with him but it doesn’t seem to make sense to him. He has too many questions. I was wondering how I can tell him about Jesus, without pushing him farther...

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Preach, Convert, Marry (PCM) dating

Q: Why is PCM (Preach, Convert, Marry) so wrong? I know a guy who is not born again and we are so perfect for each other minus this annoying fact! But he seems to be changing his ways by being around me. So how is this wrong, if it will eventually lead to him getting saved? Thanks for your question. It is clear that you know PCM is...

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Courtship vs dating… isn’t it just a matter of semantics?

Q: What is the difference between courtship and dating? Many people argue about this. It does not seem like this debate is anywhere near over. Some say there is nothing wrong with dating, if it is done in a Christian way. Others say no Christian should date – courtship is the Biblical way to go. I personally belong to this...

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Unequal Yokes… What are those, again??

Q: Is it true that as a born-again woman I should only date a born-again man? What is the meaning of 1 Cor 6:14, when Paul says, “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers?” What if my boyfriend believes in God and goes to church occasionally, but is not born again? The American Heritage Dictionary defines a yoke as a...

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Help! I’m Single!

Q: Help! I’m Single! “Listen,” Bimbo Odukoya said passionately as she walked across the stage. “If you are not a satisfied single, if you do not have peace – [if] you have not accepted what you are as a single [person], [if] you don’t celebrate your single life, you will never celebrate your...

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