i am getting married in December this year. i have been so anxious…asking myself if this is God’s will. My fiancee is such a loving man, he is born again and very supportive. he is everything a girl would ever want in a man. i just wonder if God approves of us. i wish there was a way to take... More

Before I start, Disclaimer: I am not attacking my brothers and I have no intention to do so. Now that this is out of the way, let us get to business. Every woman has an idea about Mr. Right, and the qualities that she would love to see in him. Over and above tall, dark and handsome qualities (the list... More

Fred Hammond, in his song Lost in You sang as follows: “Seems like I spent  this whole life of mine, searching  and searching, trying to find, a life filled with love that You already gave, because of the searching it pulled me away. I found all the heartache, I found all the pain I found all the... More

A few years back I used to think that I did not need to involve God fully in my life. I had a very limited thinking of who God was and I thought that He did not have to be every aspect of my life. To me, God was more of a disciplinarian than a friend. I thought that God was only concerned with the mistakes... More

I love your website, thank God for such inspired and Godly people. God is using you to touch lives. Since I knew your site. I have always visited it. I have an issue i would like you to address for me in a christian manner. I’m 24 and I have a boyfriend of 13 months in Texas. He moved out of... More

…My boyfriend told me he has herpes. Should I break off this relationship?… I am really disgusted by all this. Am I overreacting?… Rachel Dear Rachel, Thanks for your question and thanks for being candid. Toyin tackled the medical part of it and forwarded the rest to me (LOL, she is... More

Hi Pea! I hope you are doing wonderfully. I can’t believe I’m asking this but my boyfriend does not like my jeans. He says they are too tight for a full-figured woman and that they make it difficult for him to keep his thoughts pure. They are not even tight for real. The way I see this I... More

Dear Pea, I am engaged and God forbid but I think financial issues will be the biggest fight of the marriage. My fiancé makes 3 times as much money as I do. He is an aircraft engineer and I am a mere customer service representative, yet he insists that moneys should be split 50/50 when we get married.... More

Is he getting the milk without buying the cow? In other words, are you acting married before you are? Are you guarding your heart or do you wear everything on a sleeve? Do you cook for him and do his laundry? Are you having sex? Do you live together? As the months go on and people become emotionally... More

Love is a choice and the actions based on that choice. Relationships take work. People are unpredictable. Crushes fade. We’ve heard these things many times – almost too many times, for some of us. But how well do we know them? It’s already December. For those who are in relationships, how have... More