Holed Up this Valentine’s?
by Petite Ndiho
Single ladies have a tendency to get depressed every February 14th. This does not have to be the case. I am also not of the school of thought that believes we must all wear red and go out to flamboyantly declare our standing. I am a bit of a homebody and find nothing wrong with taking some time to reflect and be alone this day. Valentine’s Day this year falls on a Sunday and what better way to spend it with the one who loves us more than we could ever imagine?
For those who intend to be holed up at home this Valentine’s Day, it need not be boring or depressing. Here are a few tips to keep your environment relaxing that evening.
Have a home pedicure.
Where it happens:
Anywhere in the house.
You will need:
A pedicure tub/foot-spa, one of those that have an in-built massager (or a good old basin)
Hot water
Lots of bubble-forming foot-soaking tablets or liquid
Some petals
Pumice stone
Towel
Nail cutter and emery board
Cuticle remover
Nail polish: Base coat, polish and top coat
The procedure:
Fill the pedicure tub with hot water and put in the foot-soaking tablets
Soak your feet for fifteen minutes or until the water is tepid
Use the pumice stone to scrub your feet
Dry your feet by patting them with the towel
Clip your nails and smooth them with an emery board
Apply some cuticle remover onto the cuticles and remove them.
Moisturize your feet and legs
Apply base coat to nails, follow with two layers of polish and finally one layer of top coat.
Wait for nails to dry.
Why this is relaxing:
A home pedicure will give your aching feet that much-needed attention after a day of being on your toes. You can do it while you meditate or even talk to the Lord. Who says you only need a pedicure in the summer?
Dinner and Fun with the Ladies.
Where it happens:
Your kitchen and living or dining room.
You will need:
A simple, scrumptuous meal, served creatively.
A nice, clean show. It doesn’t have to be a movie. I have watched sermons with my friends and it is rewarding.
The procedure:
Eat, share, laugh, praise and enjoy!
Why this is relaxing:
We all need friends. Love does not always have to be between men and women. Sharing love with your friends can be a rewarding day to spend not just Valentine’s day but also any free day of the week. During these bonding periods, women share their joys, heartaches and random stories.
Desk Rearrangement.
Where it happens:
Your study corner or room.
What you need:
Your cluttered desk.
The Procedure:
Move stuff around. Move the desk, if need be.
Why this is relaxing:
For many people, the workstation is where they do the last piece of work every day. For some it is even where they carry out Bible study. Rearranging this desk is one way to use up the time and to change up the environment and make it look more inviting.
The Good Book.
Where it happens:
The couch. Your dorm room. Or anywhere else.
What you need:
Your Bible
The Procedure:
Read, learn and enjoy!
Why this is relaxing:
Reading takes your mind to a different place and time. You could be in your living room, on the bus or under a tree, but also with Queen Esther in the palace or with King David on the battlefield. At the same time, your memory is running and God is using your experiences to speak to you. In one sitting, you take many journeys. So when people say they went places for Valentine’s Day, you can say, so did you!
A Good Old Nap.
Where it happens:
Your bed, the couch.
What you need:
A good pillow.
The procedure:
Say a prayer and get some shut-eye!
Why this is relaxing:
If you’re anything like me, then the opportunity to sleep is rare and prized. It is relaxing to think that while you were in the office the day before, you can now get some rest and be ready for the week ahead. The trick is to make sure you don’t take a very long nap so that your sleep schedule is not interrupted.
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