Comments on: Help!! He Can’t Wait Any Longer…!!!! http://yakuti.org/2009/03/help-he-cant-wait-any-longer/ Fri, 03 Feb 2012 19:22:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: very concerned http://yakuti.org/2009/03/help-he-cant-wait-any-longer/#comment-54 very concerned Tue, 03 Mar 2009 04:53:45 +0000 http://yakuti.org/?p=1052#comment-54 Urayo I stumbled here through pea. I could not stay silent. You say "If we went “all the way” we can also repent in any case, cant we?" Wau. Stop right there. You are playing with fire, my sister. Before i explain, answer me this: who do you think is the author of such a thought? The Lord Jesus Christ or your enemy, the devil? It can not be the Holy Spirit urging you to do that which you know is wrong, and promising you that you can always repent later. Only your enemy ( i.e. the devil) says such things to us. Consider what he told Christ ( Luke 4:9 ) "throw yourself down, for it is written that the angels will hold you and you will not hurt yourself". It is true there is always repentance. But hear this warning: The bible say that if we sin willingly, after we have known the truth, a time will come when it might be impossible to get back to God ( Hebrews 10 ). Do you want that to happen to you? Do not play with fire, my sister. You say "We have done almost everything except penetration". Verily i say to you that you have already committed the act of sex, for it is written "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.(Matthew 5:28)". Don't you see that what you guys have done is beyond this? I urge you to repent and stop doing this. Run, my sister, run. Is keeping this dude more critical to you than keeping eternal life? What can a woman give in exchange for her soul? About your handsome guy: this much i know, that if he loves you as much as Christ loves you, he will always seek to protect you. And he will not want to sleep with you before he marries you. He will not push you. If he is unable to do so, then he really does not love you enough. No matter what he says to you. I know, trust me. Urayo
I stumbled here through pea. I could not stay silent.

You say “If we went “all the way” we can also repent in any case, cant we?”

Wau. Stop right there. You are playing with fire, my sister. Before i explain, answer me this: who do you think is the author of such a thought? The Lord Jesus Christ or your enemy, the devil?

It can not be the Holy Spirit urging you to do that which you know is wrong, and promising you that you can always repent later. Only your enemy ( i.e. the devil) says such things to us. Consider what he told Christ ( Luke 4:9 ) “throw yourself down, for it is written that the angels will hold you and you will not hurt yourself”.

It is true there is always repentance. But hear this warning: The bible say that if we sin willingly, after we have known the truth, a time will come when it might be impossible to get back to God ( Hebrews 10 ). Do you want that to happen to you? Do not play with fire, my sister.

You say “We have done almost everything except penetration”.

Verily i say to you that you have already committed the act of sex, for it is written “But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.(Matthew 5:28)”. Don’t you see that what you guys have done is beyond this? I urge you to repent and stop doing this. Run, my sister, run. Is keeping this dude more critical to you than keeping eternal life? What can a woman give in exchange for her soul?

About your handsome guy: this much i know, that if he loves you as much as Christ loves you, he will always seek to protect you. And he will not want to sleep with you before he marries you. He will not push you. If he is unable to do so, then he really does not love you enough. No matter what he says to you. I know, trust me.

]]> By: Ugo Lauretta http://yakuti.org/2009/03/help-he-cant-wait-any-longer/#comment-53 Ugo Lauretta Mon, 02 Mar 2009 21:38:11 +0000 http://yakuti.org/?p=1052#comment-53 Hi Uyora, I thank God for giving you the grace to seek to flee and to seek counsel where God's word is sought after. You have dated this man for one year but if you marry him, you hope to be married to him for years..till death do you part...or till Christ returns, right?. what holds a relationship? Love, what holds our salvation? Love, what is love? God. We all desire to be loved in a deep way..Agape.How intimate is God with you and in the life of the man you are dating. A man can not be able to love you the way you need to be loved unless God inspires him. Love is not a feeling. God is love and is deep, sure, and certain,..does not dishonor,not self seeking,rejoices with the truth, love conquers all(I corin 13:4-7). My answer FLEE!! Your body is the Temple of God& God will never ask you to fornicate..never!!..He loves you so deeply and he knows the consequences of sin. A Pastor i know,Pastor Bimbo Odukoya once said that having sex is like a covenant, you leave a piece of you with the other person. Gal 6:17 says our flesh desires everything against the spirit and the spirit is contrary to the flesh.You can't be part feeding the Spirit and part feeding the flesh. No matter how we put it, premarital sex is fornication, it doesn't matter if you're engaged to the man or if its the day before your wedding. Also sex is NOT the CENTER of a marriage its only an extra given to us by God. so if your relationship is beginning to be driven by sex...how about after you have explored it?..what's left? starving your relationship of the Spirit(the word of God, prayer) can cause such intense sexual cravings (Gal 6:7-9) Does this man really love you? Does he love and FEAR God more than he loves u? if you say no and if God takes away sex from both of you even after you're married...will he still love you? what if after he marries you and has sex with you, he begins to treat you less than he used to? what will hold your relationship?what is your relationship founded on? God or aroused feelings(flesh)? The devil gives 'logical reasons' but the Spirit of God gives LIFE!. As Christians we are a reflection of Christ..you carry around Christ... You mentioned why can't you do it and ask for forgiveness?....what is salvation? driven by obligation or driven by love? Why not steal, and kill, and ask for forgiveness after?....No! we love God, if you love someone you will never hurt them and then ask their forgiveness. If Jesus was physically standing in the same room with you and this man what will you be doing? Yes maybe the feelings seem to feel good but you have to spend more time together in God's word and PRAY so that you can starve the flesh and feed the Spirit....seek life. If spending time alone makes these feelings worse, spend more time in groups or among friends or in church. There's so much that can be said but I hope that you choose to starve your flesh and seek life and if this man refuses to seek life, that you will seek after God and run!..God will never give you a man that will draw you away from God. You deserve to be loved and God is love and can give true love. True love is not a fantasy, you don't have to settle for 80%, God gives 100% and more. The bible says the blessings of God makes rich and adds no sorrows. You the BELOVED of God. Hi Uyora,
I thank God for giving you the grace to seek to flee and to seek counsel where God’s word is sought after. You have dated this man for one year but if you marry him, you hope to be married to him for years..till death do you part…or till Christ returns, right?. what holds a relationship? Love, what holds our salvation? Love, what is love? God. We all desire to be loved in a deep way..Agape.How intimate is God with you and in the life of the man you are dating. A man can not be able to love you the way you need to be loved unless God inspires him. Love is not a feeling. God is love and is deep, sure, and certain,..does not dishonor,not self seeking,rejoices with the truth, love conquers all(I corin 13:4-7). My answer FLEE!! Your body is the Temple of God& God will never ask you to fornicate..never!!..He loves you so deeply and he knows the consequences of sin. A Pastor i know,Pastor Bimbo Odukoya once said that having sex is like a covenant, you leave a piece of you with the other person.
Gal 6:17 says our flesh desires everything against the spirit and the spirit is contrary to the flesh.You can’t be part feeding the Spirit and part feeding the flesh. No matter how we put it, premarital sex is fornication, it doesn’t matter if you’re engaged to the man or if its the day before your wedding. Also sex is NOT the CENTER of a marriage its only an extra given to us by God. so if your relationship is beginning to be driven by sex…how about after you have explored it?..what’s left? starving your relationship of the Spirit(the word of God, prayer) can cause such intense sexual cravings (Gal 6:7-9) Does this man really love you? Does he love and FEAR God more than he loves u? if you say no and if God takes away sex from both of you even after you’re married…will he still love you? what if after he marries you and has sex with you, he begins to treat you less than he used to? what will hold your relationship?what is your relationship founded on? God or aroused feelings(flesh)? The devil gives ‘logical reasons’ but the Spirit of God gives LIFE!. As Christians we are a reflection of Christ..you carry around Christ…
You mentioned why can’t you do it and ask for forgiveness?….what is salvation? driven by obligation or driven by love? Why not steal, and kill, and ask for forgiveness after?….No! we love God, if you love someone you will never hurt them and then ask their forgiveness. If Jesus was physically standing in the same room with you and this man what will you be doing? Yes maybe the feelings seem to feel good but you have to spend more time together in God’s word and PRAY so that you can starve the flesh and feed the Spirit….seek life. If spending time alone makes these feelings worse, spend more time in groups or among friends or in church. There’s so much that can be said but I hope that you choose to starve your flesh and seek life and if this man refuses to seek life, that you will seek after God and run!..God will never give you a man that will draw you away from God. You deserve to be loved and God is love and can give true love. True love is not a fantasy, you don’t have to settle for 80%, God gives 100% and more. The bible says the blessings of God makes rich and adds no sorrows. You the BELOVED of God.

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