http://yakuti.org/2009/03/he-wont-ask-me-out-already/ Fri, 03 Feb 2012 19:22:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://yakuti.org/2009/03/he-wont-ask-me-out-already/#comment-52 Ugo Lauretta Tue, 03 Mar 2009 07:12:03 +0000 http://yakuti.org/?p=1045#comment-52 Hi Wynfrith, I smiled when I heard you write "Pea, please don't give me a tough answer". That phrase sounds very familiar as a response we often give God as we prayerfully seek His will. Liking someone and thinking someone likes you is a very slippery base for a relationship. What do you like about him? Can you really say that you know him? what if one of you stops liking each other? No one really knows anyone's capacity or capabilities except God who formed us, though we can come pretty close in knowing people. Sometimes we like something today then we see something in it and we don't like it anymore or we see something we like better. Love is what is needed in courtship. God is love, and love upholds, is deep and sure and is strengthened by God as the days go by... why not bring this man prayerfully before God and seek His will? He formed you and He knows a compatible companion for you. I agree with Pea that courtship, intimacy, marriage is for God to be glorified. If we follow God's will into a relationship, during courtship and in marriage; testimonies of true love,faithfulness and so many great virtues that reflect God will be born. I once had a friend who liked a guy and the guy seemed to like her too but 4 years after liking each other and not defining the relationship, the guy decided she was not his compatible companion. My friend was very bitter but I asked her, if she sought God's will when she started liking the guy and she said it was practical, they really got along well and liked each other so she didn't think she needed to seek God's will. God(all knowing) can see 4 years ahead but my friend couldn't so there she was feeling heart broken 4 years later.The 2nd part of Matt 6:33....says and all His righteousness and every other thing shall be added. In God's time, He makes all things beautiful...If this man is a suitable companion and fears God? he will not be engaged to someone else as you seek God in Prayer, the Holy Spirit will link your hearts. I am a witness. Luke 11:9-13.Ask and seek and The Holy Spirit will guide you into truth and God's will. Having God's confirmation and will as you enter a relationship will be so worth any form of waiting.Genesis 2:23-24; Imagine how Adam felt when God formed Eve for him...the bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh...I often imagine he gasped in AWE of God's perfect creation for him.After proclaimed these words in owe God said.. "for this reason shall a man(not a woman)..." You will enjoy the true essence of leaving, cleaving, and two becoming one as you wait on God. Hi Wynfrith, I smiled when I heard you write “Pea, please don’t give me a tough answer”. That phrase sounds very familiar as a response we often give God as we prayerfully seek His will.
Liking someone and thinking someone likes you is a very slippery base for a relationship. What do you like about him? Can you really say that you know him? what if one of you stops liking each other? No one really knows anyone’s capacity or capabilities except God who formed us, though we can come pretty close in knowing people. Sometimes we like something today then we see something in it and we don’t like it anymore or we see something we like better. Love is what is needed in courtship. God is love, and love upholds, is deep and sure and is strengthened by God as the days go by… why not bring this man prayerfully before God and seek His will? He formed you and He knows a compatible companion for you.
I agree with Pea that courtship, intimacy, marriage is for God to be glorified. If we follow God’s will into a relationship, during courtship and in marriage; testimonies of true love,faithfulness and so many great virtues that reflect God will be born.
I once had a friend who liked a guy and the guy seemed to like her too but 4 years after liking each other and not defining the relationship, the guy decided she was not his compatible companion. My friend was very bitter but I asked her, if she sought God’s will when she started liking the guy and she said it was practical, they really got along well and liked each other so she didn’t think she needed to seek God’s will. God(all knowing) can see 4 years ahead but my friend couldn’t so there she was feeling heart broken 4 years later.The 2nd part of Matt 6:33….says and all His righteousness and every other thing shall be added. In God’s time, He makes all things beautiful…If this man is a suitable companion and fears God? he will not be engaged to someone else as you seek God in Prayer, the Holy Spirit will link your hearts. I am a witness.
Luke 11:9-13.Ask and seek and The Holy Spirit will guide you into truth and God’s will. Having God’s confirmation and will as you enter a relationship will be so worth any form of waiting.Genesis 2:23-24; Imagine how Adam felt when God formed Eve for him…the bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh…I often imagine he gasped in AWE of God’s perfect creation for him.After proclaimed these words in owe God said.. “for this reason shall a man(not a woman)…” You will enjoy the true essence of leaving, cleaving, and two becoming one as you wait on God.

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