Dear Pea,

Do men want a good girl or a bad girl?

I’ve been a bit of both…… I got saved 3 years ago, before that I was all that, I didn’t mind dressing sexily didn’t overdo it though. Now I’m saved and I feel like people think am boring. What’s the deal, its like were wrong if we do and we are wrong if we don’t… either you’re a prostitute or youre a prude…. What is it that these men really want?

Thank you…

Imara.

Hi Imara.

You say you are saved, so I will ask a question.

How does being a bad girl feature in your choices? Didn’t you leave all that (lol, the pun was seriously unintended) behind when you chose to follow Christ? Is being a bad girl still an option? Because it shouldn’t be.

And even if it were, is this the question you should be asking?

What if I said, “Imara, guys don’t care for good girls or bad girls – they only want girls who are perfect cliff-divers.”  Would you go and jump off a cliff?

If we try to change who we are because of what people think, we will always be changing, and even then, we won’t please anyone.

Who’s your audience? Galatians 1:10. “For do I now persuade men, or God? or do I seek to please men? for if I yet pleased men, I should not be the servant of Christ.”

No matter how boring anyone might think you are, to the man God has for you, you will be the most interesting and fun person to be around. And to God, you are much more than even you know.

Be encouraged!

God bless,

Paula

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