He’s Waiting to Ask After Christmas!
Hallo Pea,
There’s this guy I have been friends with for long, I like him “like that” and wouldn’t mind going out with him i.e. courtship but he seemed uninterested so I stopped hoping. The other day a friend of his told me that he likes me too but was waiting for the end of the xmas holidays to ask me out so that he would not be burdened with trying to impress me for xmas! I found that abit disappointing, should I agree if and when he does ‘propose’?
Nyipir
Hello, Nyipir.
My first instinct, as a woman, was to tell you to forget about this guy. However, the more I thought about it, the more I felt there was more to it all than meets the eye. For starters, I believe men and women are “wired” differently, emotionally speaking. Guys are more into logic and women are more in tune with their emotions. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that guys can’t feel or women can’t think. I am just trying to say that the actions that one gender generally finds normal might be horrifying to the other. I asked the guys what they thought of this situation and a few opinions are available on GuySpeak; however, please seek God about all things and don’t pre-judge a man. What you are relying on, after all, is hearsay. Exercise wisdom and everything will be okay. 1 John 4:1. God bless!
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